Guide to Self - Dr. John Schinnerer
  • Home
  • Coaching Info
    • Executive Coaching
    • Case Study
    • Divorce Coaching
    • Speaking & Workshops
  • High Performer Shop
  • Resources
    • Dr. John’s Blog
    • Anger Management
    • Point of No Return
    • Anger Escalation Curve
    • Inner Kingdom
    • Publications
  • Podcast
    • Episodes
  • About
    • Privacy
    • Terms & Conditions
    • Contact
  • Recognition
Select Page

What Is the Man Box and Why Does It Make Men Emotionally Unavailable?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | May 26, 2025 | Anger & Reactivity, Identity & Meaning, Relationships & Communication

Let’s talk about dudes. Manfolk. Bros. Gentlemen. Kings. Whatever you call yourself, chances are, if you were born with a Y chromosome and grew up on this planet, you got stuffed into The Man Box before you could spell “testosterone.” I’ve been working with men for...

What Is Authentic Masculinity? Why Every Man Is Hiding Behind a Mask

by Dr. John Schinnerer | May 21, 2025 | Anger & Reactivity, Identity & Meaning, Relationships & Communication, Stress & Burnout

“Dude, Take Off the Mask” — Authentic Masculinity and the Secret Every Man’s Hiding Dr. John Schinnerer | GuideToSelf.com | TheEvolvedCaveman.com | LoveIsntEnough.net  You ever feel like you’re faking it? Like you’re showing up to the world in some Frankenstein...

Why Does People Pleasing Lead to Conflict and Resentment? (Part 2)

by Dr. John Schinnerer | May 18, 2025 | Anger & Reactivity, Self-Leadership & Inner Work

By Dr. John Schinnerer  LoveIsntEnough.net | GuideToSelf.com | JoreeRose.com Welcome back, brave soul. Here is how you can stop being a people pleaser!  If you survived Part 1, where we sliced open the people pleasing beast and poked at its guts (a.k.a. crappy...

Are You Everyone’s Emotional Janitor? How to Stop People Pleasing (Part 1)

by Dr. John Schinnerer | May 18, 2025 | Anger & Reactivity, Self-Leadership & Inner Work

By Dr. John Schinnerer How to stop being a people pleaser! Let’s be real –: people pleasing is emotional self-sabotage disguised as kindness. You think you’re being generous. You think you’re the “good guy” (or girl). But underneath all that agreeable surface is...

Why Is Anger Management So Hard for Men? A Science-Based Guide

by Dr. John Schinnerer | May 15, 2025 | Anger & Reactivity, Relationships & Communication

By Dr. John Schinnerer | GuideToSelf.com |  LoveIsntEnough.net | TheEvolvedCaveman.com  Let’s cut to the truth—anger is killing your relationships, realtionships at work and at home, and in many cases, it’s doing so quietly and consistently. Unchecked anger is the...

Is Jealousy Destroying Your Relationship?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | May 8, 2025 | Anger & Reactivity, Relationships & Communication

Dr. John Schinnerer Jealousy in a relationship is like a smoke alarm—meant to signal danger, but sometimes it just goes off because you burned the toast. It’s not always about what’s actually happening; it’s often about fear, insecurity, or old emotional baggage...
« Older Entries
Next Entries »

Recent Posts

  • 10 Issues Keeping Men Stuck—and What Actually Helps
  • 1. Childhood Emotional Neglect in Men: When Nothing Bad Happened and You’re Still Not Okay
  • 7. Hyper-Independence in Men: When “I Don’t Need Anyone” Becomes Avoidant Attachment
  • 8. Why Men Shut Down: Stonewalling in Relationships Explained
  • 9. Why Do I Get Irritated So Easily? A Man’s Short Fuse Explained

Recent Comments

    Join the Newsletter

    • Want more from Dr. John?
    • Our Family of Brands
    • Emotional Intelligence Coach for High-Achieving Men
    • Recognition
    • Facebook
    • Twitter
    • RSS
    • LinkedIn
    About John | Contact | Privacy Policy | © 2025 John Schinnerer