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How Do I Survive My Divorce? Best Tips for Men Going Through Divorce

by Dr. John Schinnerer | May 6, 2025 | Relationships & Communication, Stress & Burnout

By Dr. John Schinnerer I  survived a difficult divorce. I have eight years of training in mental health. I coach men in the best ways to survive divorce and thrive following divorce. So, in many ways, I am uniquely qualified to put forth some critical tips to help you...

Is People-Pleasing Killing Your Sex Life and Your Relationship?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Apr 21, 2025 | Self-Leadership & Inner Work, Stress & Burnout

By Dr. John Schinnerer GuideToSelf.com LoveIsntEnough.net Let’s get real for a second: many of us—especially the chronic overachievers and conflict-avoiders—suck at setting boundaries. We say “yes” when we mean “no way,” all in the name of being liked, loved, or at...

Is Chronic Stress Destroying Your Life and Your Relationships?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Mar 17, 2025 | Anger & Reactivity, Stress & Burnout

Let’s talk about something we all deal with but most of us don’t manage well: chronic stress. You know, that constant, low-grade tension that never really goes away? The feeling that you’ve got 87 tabs open in your brain, and every time you close one, three more pop...

Why Does Your Productivity Suck Right Now? How to Manage High Stress

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Apr 27, 2020 | Anger & Reactivity, Identity & Meaning, Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication, Stress & Burnout

By Dr. John Schinnerer (Note: There are free audio meditation files down below in this article. Just click on the link to get yours.) A client of mine went through a brutal divorce recently. His wife dragged them into litigation for three years, at a cost of over...
Why Would Men Rather Shock Themselves Than Be Alone With Their Thoughts?

Why Would Men Rather Shock Themselves Than Be Alone With Their Thoughts?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Apr 23, 2020 | Anger & Reactivity, Identity & Meaning, Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication, Stress & Burnout

Men Would Rather Shock Themselves Than Be Alone With Their Thoughts. Is It Any Wonder We’re Struggling With Shelter-In-Place? By Dr. John Schinnerer “My mind is a bad neighborhood that I try not to go into alone.” Anne Lamott Men Would Rather Shock Themselves Than Be...

How Does Tragedy Mask the Opportunity for Growth?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Apr 19, 2020 | Anger & Reactivity, Relationships & Communication, Stress & Burnout

Tragedy masks the opportunity for growth. The surest way out of untenable situations is to change your perspective and view your situation as a #challenge to to which you are meant to rise. Challenge yourself by asking,”What am I supposed to learn from this?“ Your...
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