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What Are the Joys and Disappointments of Father’s Day?

What Are the Joys and Disappointments of Father’s Day?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Jun 18, 2018 | Anger & Reactivity, Identity & Meaning, Relationships & Communication

Happy Belated Father’s Day! I know, I’m a day late. But I have to share what happened this Father’s Day. It was brilliant. And know, before I share this with you, that it hasn’t always been this way. In fact, most of my Father’s Days have been downright disappointing....
What Is the Easiest and Most Powerful Tool to Save Your Marriage?

What Is the Easiest and Most Powerful Tool to Save Your Marriage?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Apr 16, 2018 | Anger & Reactivity, Relationships & Communication

Dr. John Schinnerer What if I were to tell you there are secrets, scientifically proven tools, that will help strengthen your marriage? Would you be interested? As it happens, there are proven tools that you can learn to improve your marriage. And this same tool, that...

What Are 8 Surprising Books That Will Help You Win at Life?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Mar 9, 2018 | Anger & Reactivity, Identity & Meaning, Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication, Stress & Burnout

I love to read. I read – a lot. As a result, many people ask me “What should I read?” And, truly, it’s a tough question. Where are you at now? Where would you like to go? What are you trying to accomplish? Become happier? Build a business?...
How Do You Let Go of Anger? An Expert’s Top 5 Tools

How Do You Let Go of Anger? An Expert’s Top 5 Tools

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Feb 16, 2018 | Anger & Reactivity, Identity & Meaning, Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication

  “I am right, damnit. I am right and she will know it before I am done.” Your energy surges. You feel powerful, justified, electric. Your mind quickly calculates every argument to defend your position and undermine hers. Blood rushes to your fists to prepare you...
Why Should You Practice Gratitude Year Round? 10 Science-Backed Reasons

Why Should You Practice Gratitude Year Round? 10 Science-Backed Reasons

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Nov 20, 2017 | Anger & Reactivity, Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication, Stress & Burnout

Dr. John Schinnerer Ahh, Thanksgiving, a wonderful time of the year to show gratitude to loved ones. After all, isn’t that what it’s all about – giving thanks?! Yet what if we shift the idea from ThanksGiving to ThanksLiving? What if we shifted our thinking from...

How Does Sharing Your Story Lead to Success?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Nov 15, 2017 | Identity & Meaning

Be vulnerable enough to share your internal world. For that is the path to success, to connection, to relevance. Part of self-compassion is understanding that you are not alone in your struggles, in your suffering. And that shared suffering gives us relief....

How Do You Build a Happy, Supportive Relationship?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Nov 14, 2017 | Relationships & Communication

If you want to create a happy, positive, successful relationship, here are some of the best tools to work on…   A successful relationship is built upon many, many skills, all of which are learnable. For more info on ways to become happier in life, work and...

What Are the Top Indicators That Divorce Is Coming?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Nov 14, 2017 | Relationships & Communication

Here are the top 4 indicators to watch for if you think your relationship is on the wrong path…  

How Do You Manage Stress Once and For All?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Nov 13, 2017 | Stress & Burnout

Dr. John shares the latest and best tools to turn down the volume on stress – new ways to think about stress, tools to interpret stress more productively, 2 different types of stress, and how to deal with it when it arises. For more of the latest info on how to...

What Are the 3 Best Tools to Reduce Anger in Marriage?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Nov 10, 2017 | Anger & Reactivity, Relationships & Communication

For your ongoing learning, here is a brief video we just finished up with three tips on managing anger in marriage. For more powerful tools on managing anger in your relationships, please visit our High Performer shop with a variety of online classes, books and talks...
Which Values Are You Willing to Fight For?

Which Values Are You Willing to Fight For?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Nov 2, 2017 | Identity & Meaning, Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication

How Can Cultivating Awe Boost Creativity and Inner Peace?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Nov 2, 2017 | Identity & Meaning, Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication

Why Should You Be Grateful to Be Alive Right Now?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Nov 2, 2017 | Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication

What Did Dr. John Schinnerer Say About Anger in U.S. News & World Report?

What Did Dr. John Schinnerer Say About Anger in U.S. News & World Report?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Oct 31, 2017 | Anger & Reactivity, Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication

Dr. John was honored and humbled to be included extensively in an article on anger and health in U.S. News and World Report by Michael Schroeder. Here is a link to the article on the U.S. News site…...
What Are the Top 3 Ways to Handle Anger in a Relationship?

What Are the Top 3 Ways to Handle Anger in a Relationship?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Oct 6, 2017 | Anger & Reactivity, Relationships & Communication

By Dr. John Schinnerer Guide To Self.com  How do you best deal with your anger? And what happens when those methods don’t work? Some of the traditional tools for processing anger include exercise, yoga, mindfulness or breathing deeply. These are classic tools to deal...
Why Are 24% of Girls Depressed at Age 14? What the Research Shows

Why Are 24% of Girls Depressed at Age 14? What the Research Shows

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Sep 22, 2017 | Anger & Reactivity, Men's Mental Fitness

  From ScienceDaily.com September 21, 2017   Summary: New research from University of Liverpool reports that a quarter of girls (24%) and one in 10 boys (9%) are depressed at age 14.   Researchers from the University of Liverpool and University College...
Can Thinking Less Actually Make You Happier?

Can Thinking Less Actually Make You Happier?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Sep 20, 2017 | Identity & Meaning, Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication, Stress & Burnout

Dr. John Schinnerer GuideToSelf.com. WebAngerManagement.com My parents were really big on academics. I learned to do well in school as a child in an attempt to make my parents proud. Along the way, I learned to think.  I became very good at thinking. By the 7th grade,...

How Can Mindfulness Help You Manage Anger?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Apr 19, 2017 | Anger & Reactivity, Identity & Meaning, Relationships & Communication, Stress & Burnout

Manage Your Anger with Mindfulness Anger is a normal, human feeling. Anger, in and of itself, is not destructive. Anger serves us. It demands our attention when our health is in danger, when a boundary has been crossed, or when someone takes advantage of us....

How Do Anger and Stress Damage Your Heart?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Feb 7, 2017 | Anger & Reactivity, Stress & Burnout

Frequent Anger and Stress Damage Your Heart So We Must Learn Methods to Manage Them   I recently received this email from a man in my online anger management class… ‘Dear Dr. John: Your online anger management class has been extremely  helpful to me. The...

What Are 20 Surprising Habits of Successful Executives?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Dec 19, 2016 | Identity & Meaning, Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication, Self-Leadership & Inner Work

Clients frequently ask me about the daily habits of successful C-level executives. “What skills can I learn to be more productive and happy?”, they ask. So, based on 20 years of coaching top executives and intellectuals, here is my list of the most compelling habits...
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