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How Do You Become Both Happy and Successful as a Man?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Mar 15, 2020 | Anger & Reactivity, Identity & Meaning, Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication, Stress & Burnout

Dr. John Schinnerer Executive Summary: A recent study (The Harry’s Masculinity Report, USA) looked at which factors are the most important for wellbeing and happiness for American men. Answers from 5,000 men indicate that happiness is predicated on the following (in...

Why Did Guide to Self Win an Award for Social Media?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Dec 21, 2019 | Identity & Meaning

Press Release FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE GuideToSelf.Com Receives 2019 Best of Danville Award Danville Award Program Honors the Achievement DANVILLE December 14, 2019 — GuideToSelf.Com has been selected for the 2019 Best of Danville Award in the Media Services...

How Does Man Box Culture Hurt Your Relationships?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Dec 19, 2019 | Anger & Reactivity, Identity & Meaning, Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication

How does being raised in the Man Box Culture impact us as grown men in our relationships? There are a number of possible ways we are affected based on the unspoken rules we learn as boys. These rules are often handed down by the alpha male in our tribes, friends,...

How Does Male Socialization Damage Men’s Relationships?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Oct 15, 2019 | Anger & Reactivity, Identity & Meaning, Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication

Dr. John Schinnerer It was the second half of the varsity high school soccer game. The game was tied 1-1. Play had just been stopped by the referee – injury timeout. I was laying on the ground, writhing in pain after having just been elbowed in the temple by a...
How Do You Empty Your Backpack of Anger?

How Do You Empty Your Backpack of Anger?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Aug 14, 2018 | Anger & Reactivity, Identity & Meaning, Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication, Stress & Burnout

I got an email today from a woman whose husband is estranged from their daughter. The daughter is demanding that he take anger management classes before he can see the grandchildren. Here is part of my response… Thank you for sharing your story with me. I know how...

What Are the Best Ways to Reduce Anger? Interview With Dr. John Schinnerer

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Jun 25, 2018 | Anger & Reactivity, Relationships & Communication

Here it is – the worldwide release of the much-anticipated interview of anger management expert, Dr. John Schinnerer, by Paul Averill of the ManBits Podcast. Just click below to listen! And if you need more help with anger, irritability and possibly depression,...
What Are the Joys and Disappointments of Father’s Day?

What Are the Joys and Disappointments of Father’s Day?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Jun 18, 2018 | Anger & Reactivity, Identity & Meaning, Relationships & Communication

Happy Belated Father’s Day! I know, I’m a day late. But I have to share what happened this Father’s Day. It was brilliant. And know, before I share this with you, that it hasn’t always been this way. In fact, most of my Father’s Days have been downright disappointing....
What Is the Easiest and Most Powerful Tool to Save Your Marriage?

What Is the Easiest and Most Powerful Tool to Save Your Marriage?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Apr 16, 2018 | Anger & Reactivity, Relationships & Communication

Dr. John Schinnerer What if I were to tell you there are secrets, scientifically proven tools, that will help strengthen your marriage? Would you be interested? As it happens, there are proven tools that you can learn to improve your marriage. And this same tool, that...

What Are 8 Surprising Books That Will Help You Win at Life?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Mar 9, 2018 | Anger & Reactivity, Identity & Meaning, Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication, Stress & Burnout

I love to read. I read – a lot. As a result, many people ask me “What should I read?” And, truly, it’s a tough question. Where are you at now? Where would you like to go? What are you trying to accomplish? Become happier? Build a business?...
How Do You Let Go of Anger? An Expert’s Top 5 Tools

How Do You Let Go of Anger? An Expert’s Top 5 Tools

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Feb 16, 2018 | Anger & Reactivity, Identity & Meaning, Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication

  “I am right, damnit. I am right and she will know it before I am done.” Your energy surges. You feel powerful, justified, electric. Your mind quickly calculates every argument to defend your position and undermine hers. Blood rushes to your fists to prepare you...
Why Should You Practice Gratitude Year Round? 10 Science-Backed Reasons

Why Should You Practice Gratitude Year Round? 10 Science-Backed Reasons

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Nov 20, 2017 | Anger & Reactivity, Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication, Stress & Burnout

Dr. John Schinnerer Ahh, Thanksgiving, a wonderful time of the year to show gratitude to loved ones. After all, isn’t that what it’s all about – giving thanks?! Yet what if we shift the idea from ThanksGiving to ThanksLiving? What if we shifted our thinking from...

How Does Sharing Your Story Lead to Success?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Nov 15, 2017 | Identity & Meaning

Be vulnerable enough to share your internal world. For that is the path to success, to connection, to relevance. Part of self-compassion is understanding that you are not alone in your struggles, in your suffering. And that shared suffering gives us relief....

How Do You Build a Happy, Supportive Relationship?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Nov 14, 2017 | Relationships & Communication

If you want to create a happy, positive, successful relationship, here are some of the best tools to work on…   A successful relationship is built upon many, many skills, all of which are learnable. For more info on ways to become happier in life, work and...

What Are the Top Indicators That Divorce Is Coming?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Nov 14, 2017 | Relationships & Communication

Here are the top 4 indicators to watch for if you think your relationship is on the wrong path…  

How Do You Manage Stress Once and For All?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Nov 13, 2017 | Stress & Burnout

Dr. John shares the latest and best tools to turn down the volume on stress – new ways to think about stress, tools to interpret stress more productively, 2 different types of stress, and how to deal with it when it arises. For more of the latest info on how to...

What Are the 3 Best Tools to Reduce Anger in Marriage?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Nov 10, 2017 | Anger & Reactivity, Relationships & Communication

For your ongoing learning, here is a brief video we just finished up with three tips on managing anger in marriage. For more powerful tools on managing anger in your relationships, please visit our High Performer shop with a variety of online classes, books and talks...
Which Values Are You Willing to Fight For?

Which Values Are You Willing to Fight For?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Nov 2, 2017 | Identity & Meaning, Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication

How Can Cultivating Awe Boost Creativity and Inner Peace?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Nov 2, 2017 | Identity & Meaning, Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication

Why Should You Be Grateful to Be Alive Right Now?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Nov 2, 2017 | Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication

What Did Dr. John Schinnerer Say About Anger in U.S. News & World Report?

What Did Dr. John Schinnerer Say About Anger in U.S. News & World Report?

by Dr. John Schinnerer | Oct 31, 2017 | Anger & Reactivity, Men's Mental Fitness, Relationships & Communication

Dr. John was honored and humbled to be included extensively in an article on anger and health in U.S. News and World Report by Michael Schroeder. Here is a link to the article on the U.S. News site…...
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