The #1 Skill Men Need for a Life of Purpose, Happiness, and Legacy

The #1 Skill Men Need for a Life of Purpose, Happiness, and Legacy

By Dr. John Schinnerer | GuideToSelf.com | LoveIsntEnough.net | TheEvolvedCaveman.com   “What the hell am I feeling… and why does it matter?” If you’re like most men raised in Western culture, you’ve probably been taught to ignore, suppress, or power...
A Love Letter from an Avoidantly Attached Man: A Journey Toward Emotional Resilience and Secure Love

A Love Letter from an Avoidantly Attached Man: A Journey Toward Emotional Resilience and Secure Love

By Dr. John Schinnerer | GuideToSelf.com | LoveIsntEnough.net  My Dearest Love, There are words I should have spoken long ago—words buried in the quiet spaces between us. I know that in those silences, my emotional distance may have made you question your value. And...

The Man Box (a.k.a. Why Men Are Emotionally Unavailable and What to Do About It)

Let’s talk about dudes. Manfolk. Bros. Gentlemen. Kings. Whatever you call yourself, chances are, if you were born with a Y chromosome and grew up on this planet, you got stuffed into The Man Box before you could spell “testosterone.” I’ve been working with men for...

“Dude, Take Off the Mask” — Authentic Masculinity and the Secret Every Man’s Hiding Per a Top Men’s Therapist

“Dude, Take Off the Mask” — Authentic Masculinity and the Secret Every Man’s Hiding Dr. John Schinnerer | GuideToSelf.com | TheEvolvedCaveman.com | LoveIsntEnough.net  You ever feel like you’re faking it? Like you’re showing up to the world in some Frankenstein...

Men and Emotions: Are We Really the Stone-Cold Robots Everyone Thinks We Are?  

By Dr. John Schinnerer | GuideToSelf.com | TheEvolvedCaveman.com Let’s just call it out: the stereotype that men are less emotional than women? Total BS. The truth? We feel just as much—we’ve just been trained since kindergarten not to show it unless it involves a...

How To Get Your Husband To Go To Couples Therapy

How To Get Your Husband To Go To Marriage Therapy Dr. John Schinnerer LoveIsntEnough.net  GuideToSelf.com  “How can I get my husband to go to couples counseling?!” This is one of the most common questions I get as a couples therapist. Helping a husband get...