What Does Science Say Men Get Wrong About Sex and Intimacy?

What Does Science Say Men Get Wrong About Sex and Intimacy?

Sex, Desire & Intimacy: What Science Says Men Get Wrong Sexually – You’re Not Broken. You’re Just Under-Informed. What the science of sex (and the Kinsey Institute) says that most men never got taught. Most of us learned about sex from a toxic curriculum...

How Do Emotions Shape Your Life? What 50 Years of Research Shows

Dr. John Schinnerer  | GuideToSelf.com | LoveIsntEnough.net | TheEvolvedCaveman.com | What if your emotional patterns at age 5 could predict your relationships, career trajectory, mental health, and even your lifespan? That’s not a punchline—it’s the insight at the...

How Do I Get My Husband to Try Couples Counseling?

You Want to Feel Closer. He Just Wants to Avoid Feeling Attacked. You bring up couples counseling… He shuts down, changes the subject, or says, “We’re fine.” Sound familiar? If your bid for deeper connection is met with resistance, sarcasm, or silence—you are...

How Do You Take Other People’s Moods Less Personally?

What’s the biggest gift you can give your loved ones? Help them to take your bad moods less personally. Thirty years ago, the wisest professor I had at UC Berkeley, Meji Singh, dropped this truth bomb on me: “John, we make the mistake of taking 95% of what other...

What Are the Best Podcasts for Women Over 35?

Top 10 Podcasts Every Woman Over 35 Should Be Listening To Something shifts after 35. Maybe it’s the subtle (or not-so-subtle) realization that life is speeding up—or that you’ve been living parts of it on autopilot. Maybe your kids are growing, your relationships are...

What Are the Best Podcasts for Love and Relationships in 2025?

Top 10 Podcasts for Navigating Love and Relationships in 2025 (Without Losing Your Mind) Let’s be real: Love is beautiful, messy, confusing, exhilarating—and occasionally makes you want to hide under the covers until further notice. Whether you’re in a long-term...