Is People-Pleasing Killing Your Sex Life and Your Relationship?

By Dr. John Schinnerer GuideToSelf.com LoveIsntEnough.net Let’s get real for a second: many of us—especially the chronic overachievers and conflict-avoiders—suck at setting boundaries. We say “yes” when we mean “no way,” all in the name of being liked, loved, or at...

Why Was Dr. John Schinnerer Named Best Executive Coach of the Year?

Voted Best Executive Coach in Danville — Dr. John Schinnerer Big thanks to everyone who voted! Dr. John Schinnerer of Guide to Self was honored as Best Executive Coach in Danville. Your support means the world. Want to work with Dr. John? Visit his High Performer Shop...

How Do You Get Your Husband to Go to Couples Therapy?

How To Get Your Husband To Go To Marriage Therapy Dr. John Schinnerer LoveIsntEnough.net  GuideToSelf.com  “How can I get my husband to go to couples counseling?!” This is one of the most common questions I get as a couples therapist. Helping a husband get...

Why Is Ego Death a Worthy Goal for Personal Growth?

THE DEATH YOU NEED (BUT DON’T WANT): WHY YOUR EGO IS WRECKING YOUR LIFE AND HOW TO BURY IT Let’s talk about ego death. Yeah, I know—it sounds like some woo-woo nonsense touted by a bearded guy in a long linen robe at a Burning Man drum circle. But stick with me here,...

Is Chronic Stress Destroying Your Life and Your Relationships?

Let’s talk about something we all deal with but most of us don’t manage well: chronic stress. You know, that constant, low-grade tension that never really goes away? The feeling that you’ve got 87 tabs open in your brain, and every time you close one, three more pop...

Why Does Your Productivity Suck Right Now? How to Manage High Stress

By Dr. John Schinnerer (Note: There are free audio meditation files down below in this article. Just click on the link to get yours.) A client of mine went through a brutal divorce recently. His wife dragged them into litigation for three years, at a cost of over...