The Crisis of Disconnected Young Men:  Weed, Wi-Fi, and WTF Is Going On?

By Dr. John Schinnerer, Host of The Evolved Caveman Podcast   Let’s be honest: A lot of young men today are lost—like “took a wrong turn at puberty and now stranded somewhere between apathy and rage with no Wi-Fi” lost. What we’re witnessing isn’t just teenage angst...

The Top Secret to a Happier Life?  Hint: It’s the Habit We Practice the Least

By Dr. John Schinnerer   GuideToSelf.com | LoveIsntEnough.net | TheEvolvedCaveman.com  Let’s be real—between the stress, annoyance, and collective burnout we’re all wading through, just about everyone could use a serious happiness upgrade. And here’s the upside:...

People-Pleasing Is Killing Your Sex Life (And Your Relationship). Here’s How to Stop

By Dr. John Schinnerer GuideToSelf.com LoveIsntEnough.net Let’s get real for a second: many of us—especially the chronic overachievers and conflict-avoiders—suck at setting boundaries. We say “yes” when we mean “no way,” all in the name of being liked, loved, or at...

Awarded Best Executive Coach Of The Year – Dr. John Schinnerer

Voted Best Executive Coach in Danville — Dr. John Schinnerer Big thanks to everyone who voted! Dr. John Schinnerer of Guide to Self was honored as Best Executive Coach in Danville. Your support means the world. Want to work with Dr. John? Visit his High Performer Shop...

How To Get Your Husband To Go To Couples Therapy

How To Get Your Husband To Go To Marriage Therapy Dr. John Schinnerer LoveIsntEnough.net  GuideToSelf.com  “How can I get my husband to go to couples counseling?!” This is one of the most common questions I get as a couples therapist. Helping a husband get...

Why Ego Death Is A Worthy Goal

THE DEATH YOU NEED (BUT DON’T WANT): WHY YOUR EGO IS WRECKING YOUR LIFE AND HOW TO BURY IT Let’s talk about ego death. Yeah, I know—it sounds like some woo-woo nonsense touted by a bearded guy in a long linen robe at a Burning Man drum circle. But stick with me here,...